"Giiiirrrrlllll My Child is BAD as HELL"........ Why is this something that we as black mothers glorify? I know. I understand. I have said it. I also had to think, recheck and correct it. I seen how my child reacted to it. She believed she was bad. I seen the confidence drain right away from…Read more Bad Children…..
Christmas Photos
What a fucking ordeal.......first you have the whining fiancé who doesn't want to go. He wants to stay home and watch football!!! FOOTBALL? "Who is playing on a Saturday" I ask......Fucking college. The kids who haven't even made it to the big leagues. Okay well we have a 9:45 a.m. appointment so lets get in…Read more Christmas Photos
Good Hair London
I despise the saying "GOOD HAIR" if it grows isn't it good hair? When London was born everyone asked about her hair. Like coming from a Black Mother and a Black Father she should have had another grade of hair. I have to stress that when she was born I hated the…Read more Good Hair London
The Stereotype
I felt like this was a good place to start. The Beginning of The Real Black Mom. It's not to say other African American moms aren't real I am just saying what I know to be true. So this is my blog about what I know. How I raise my daughter. The blended family experience.…Read more The Stereotype
MY Natural isn’t YOUR Natural
When we hear this word as it pertains to the "sista girl" we think of a woman with a large afro, no make-up, and African attire. Yes in some cases she looks like this. I however don't. I am a 31 year old mother of one who is 4. She must and will be natural until…Read more MY Natural isn’t YOUR Natural
The Real Black Mom 